We are the destructors of our own peace and are unaware of this truth!
For everything and anything in life, you always have a choice to make. Sometimes you are aware of the choices available, but sometimes they might not be visible in the most distinct form. But, they are always there!
Pain is no different. Like every other human feeling and tendency, pain is also a repercussion of our actions and is justified owing to our choices.
Humans being the most developed organisms are a house to the most complex structure- the brain, which tends to make choices which would give us instant gratification, but might have destructive effects in the long run. We tend to sort things for the present which might seem good for a day or two, but suffering in the long run, is, what follows.
We tend to rebound to the things that cause suffering and pain and therefore leaving us with a mountain of despair.
As humans, we never really focus on things that lie infront of us, but always try to better the things out of our control. We ruin things for ourselves, when we have choices to enjoy what have been given to us.
For example, we go back to the same circle of friends, to seek validation and approval, who bully us, for the fear of being alone. The fear of being alone, makes you suffer the pain of being a victim to the vicious "people pleasing" cycle. You had a choice of separation, but you chose pain. Many such real life instances lie infront of us, if we were to notice. So what does it take to be away from choosing painful stuff?
Prioritize yourself over everything.
It is you, who matters.
In today's world, there's nobody who can understand you as much
as you understand yourself!
So, only you know what is right for you.
Your happiness and your dreams should not be hampered by the choices you make. There is one beautiful life that is given to us, by God, make full use of it. If ever, you feel, like going back to something that had caused pain to you, remember, that it is not worth your time and efforts. You would always have a choice in cutting people from your life too. It may seem difficult at first, but once you realise your worth, it will all be worth it. Things may seem difficult at times, you might choose wrongly, after all, we're humans, but learning from those mistakes is what is required. Realise how important you are and how important your mental sanity is.
You are never really alone, you always have yourself, your priorities and someone who loves you dearly.
So the next time you choose pain, think about yourself, think about what really matters to you, maybe you'll end up choosing what really pleases you and what might not end you up with sufferings.
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